I'm trashed.. crumpled..

I know you are reading this.. Don't ask me how.. i just know. I am just purely shocked and crumpled by the things you guys have predicted of me. Once again, my heart is being squeezed due to the irony of the situation i am in. Lemme tell you one thing.. from the bottom of my heart. It is way way much easier than anything else.. to pretend ignorance and walk back in like as though everything will be fine. It freaking hurts to do this!!

Freedom.. what do u know of freedom. Freedom is the ability to think for yourself.. the ability to make balanced decisions.. the ability to face the consequences of ur decisions with integrity and dignity.. all of which i had when i was with u....apparently, u had none.. so in wat position are u in to speak of freedom my friend? New found freedom at the expense of breaking my own heart ? think well... There is no freedom in feeling vulnerable and trashed.. there is no freedom beyond killing the hopes and dreams of us i've weaved within...there is no freedom in being striped of a status .. the status of being your wife. Freedom.. is freewill.. the will to love with all ur heart and fight for it.. i've lost that.. wats freedom.. wat the hell can i do with that?

U gave me chance hence i shld give u a chance? tell me.. did u really give me a chance? since u pulled the card out... lets throw it on the table to talk.. yes i made a mistake.. i admit... brought upon myself.. let lemme tell u.. i had my back log.. which i didnt settle properly.. it is natural in the environment we grew up in.. u and i no of it. Early in our union.. U didnt make it conducive for me to confidently toss it right behind me and never to turn back.. I always said it was totally my fault.. but now lemme tell u.. It was half your freaking fault! U even at a pt in time.. thought an intimate r/s will settle all awkwardness between us.. did i look like a rag doll.. or a bimbo with reaking hormones? u foolish thing! even after all that had been settled.. u still suspected me.. u broke my heart over and over again.. you called my friends up and made me look like a fool.. my heart and conscience was clear.. yours wasnt.. so tell me.. who is to suspect who? you closed your door all day.. in the com and wait till night fall for me to come home.. u no the Internet? u no that an idler's mind is a devil's workshop.. yet.. have i ever questioned you? did u notice the amount of trust i placed upon u w/o question.. the ways in which i shielded you against all possible insensitive Qs thrown to you? I dont like being a shameless creature listing all the things i did for you which u took advantage of.. One thing i can say.. any other gal of my profile and background wld have DEMANDED more out the r/s we are sharing.. but i didnt.. bcos i was sincere in trying to work things out between us.. i didnt even allow my own parents to come between us... after doing all these.. u make it sound like i am looking forward to running away from you? As it is i'm heart broken.. this so helped me! I'm dumbfounded.. so whats the meaning of all the hugs and kisses? and i love yous and i miss Us.. nth right? The world is unfair and selfish.. i agree.. that is why i ended up like that.. didnt i? why? when the world is like that? why shld i be any different? right? i mean just noone thought for me.. did u? did ur dad? did ur mom? ur relatives? did my parents? they didnt.. they trusted your dad! blindly!!! so since.. noone thought for me.. dont u think its time i stop entrusting myself upon others.. and start thinking for myself?

My parents can nvr convince me either way... cos i have ever told them.. and so has my sister in law and bro.. they will nvr no wat is feels like to b me. they respect that.. and till now its always been my wish.. i no i've mentioned this.. but i shall mention its again.. its always easy to run back to you like nth happened.. i'm not used to making such huge decisions.. i'm more used to adapting. But i have to stop being like that.. i am forced to do so.. for if i dont, i'm foolish. At this juncture.. i can guarantee u this.. my decision is not based on emotions... i've set aside the anger of u guys lying to me.. i've also set aside the part where i love u.. let's be fair.. look at it at a fresh pt of view.. like i was gg to be with you.. so wats there for me to walk in.. 1) simply the blind hope that things will be fine 2) taking ur word for it.. which requires both the emo pointers i ruled out earlier on.. hence walking in looks bleak.. walking out.. there is hope.. either way.. i am gg to suffer.. i know.. i no wat i can go thru and wat i cant.. i got a taste of wat its like to go thru wat i did wit u.. if not for e parents and the siblings i had.. if not for the fact that they'd blame themselves.. i wldnt be alive.. all cos of u. u induced me to kill myself .. one night.. u did.. and i almost succumbed to u.. surprised?so imagine my strength level a decade later.. u probably wldnt be the oni one with problems..

What more can i say to convince u all.. that here and now is not the problem at all..its the tomorrow.. the 5 yrs.. and the 10 years.. for once open ur eyes and look at it from my pt of view.. pls i beg of u to sympathize with me..

Its easy to point finger.. and say u did this u did that.. its also easy to make promises today and forget tmr.. we are both wrong and right in many ways. i have nth against u.. and i still love you.. i miss you like crazy.. But that.. is not gg to change my decision. i have kept my reasons for this decisions at check right from the start.... I am aware of the consequences of my decision.. and i strongly believe i can face the odds.. i believe one day.. i'd move on.. and soar.. if u cld find it anywer in ur heart to give in for me.. i beg of u.. pls do so.. let me go.