So tell me...

Where are those guys...

who dont fancy dancing and fooling ard with drinks in clubs with random people...
who drink only on happy occasions ... and even after much 2 drink... still chill and steady
who has fun in many ways... other than clubbing.. drinking.. clubbing.. and drinking..
who sees love in his own unique perspective... not the way prescribed commercially
who knows for sure what type of gal would compensate for him and for what type he can compensate for .. not just her looks her money her hot grooves her sexual appeal
who has a social life.. other than clubs and work and school..
who has a passion for a special something.. other than alcohol or sex
who has a sexual life... not just when he's drunk or to randomly please his desire for the weekend..
who lives for the decades to come... not for the day or the coming weekend..
who when dating a lady... pulls the chair out for her on their dinner date...
who has a blogful of his thoughts and ideas (or not have a blog at all in the first place)... but not pictures of his hell-break-loose weekend at clubs with other let-your-hair-down gals ...
who has friends of interests other than clubbin, drinking and drowning in love matters....
who knows money is power and with power comes responsibility...
who makes money and spends it to make more... just for the fun of it..
who wakes up every morning fresh and with confidence... more to complete wat he wants to do for the day rather than to look forward to the end of it.
who sees ladies as the women they are... and not as chicks (yes there is a difference guys... sighz!)
who knows whats worth a fight and what not... when to step up and when to step back..
who knows how to argue with respect...
who knows that he doesnt have to be right all the time... but has enough intergrity to take ownership of his own actions and decisions...
who doesnt find the need to boast how manly he is to impress a woman...
who doesnt mind his past failures... and prefers to do sth abt it rather than to dwell in it
who doesnt swim in emotions... yet is very sensitive... knows his balance and his line...
who has absolute control over himself... his emotions.. his ego... his heart.. his soul.. his conscience.. his facial expressions... his body language...
who is sincere down to his bones... yet knows when a white lie cld make the situation a better one...
who beams of confidence at heart and yet radiates a gentle nature
who is gallant cos its him ... and not out for ulterior motives.. not to selective people.. but to everybody always
who dresses in a style he is comfortable with... cos he knows his look... and what reflects his personality ... not for the crowd... and not to be "unique" either...
who holds his ego at check ... not to be dettered... yet not to be overbearing...
who knows wat is he wants out of his love life... not that love is important... but knows its the lady he chooses who is impt.
who knows how to mould his woman ... not with force... but with love..



Endangered species i wld say... but not extinct...



Falling in love is the easiest part....
trust me..





need i say more?